Fear of Separation
Overcoming Death part 2
Picture courtesy of Lucas Pezeta
Another aspect of death is that it creates the fear of separation. This can be one of the hardest parts to overcome. In this article we will look at some of the points of fear, worry, sorrow and sadness from a physical perspective and then we will look at it from the perspective of the spirit within and some misconceptions.
As we always say, regardless of if we are scared or not. we will all be ok. What is hard is for those who are left behind. How we cope, how we continue, how we find happiness. How do we cope with the pain of separation. If our loved ones have suffered illness, accident or taken cruelly.
What about when parents leave before we have time to get to know them. Sometimes people can return home before we are ready for separation. Death can be very hard to understand when looking from a physical or material point of view.
Fear of Separation
We must also consider our own worries for loved ones, friends and families, how a thought can trigger instant fear and panic. In this current climate and state of our world, there is much to cause worry.
Some of our loved ones may be in a position that they have only a short time with us before they return home. Then we have those who slip away for reasons we cannot fathom, here one moment and gone the next. The fear of losing someone amplified by strength of love. We will say that again.
The fear of losing someone amplified by strength of love.
The fear of separation becomes the sorrow of loss. For many we look at death with physical thoughts and emotions. We can really suffer, the pain being unbearable, we do our best not to face it accept it or live our lives without those who have travelled to the next place.
We miss their companionship, their voices, their laughter. The happiness they may bring, the love given and received. Is it truly the end. I can say with all the truth in my heart that is not, and love is a powerful magnet that ensures we are never separated.
Physical pain can swamp, destroy and take lives and to those who are suffering. Do not fear as we will all be reunited in time. We just have to learn to cope, deal and continue on this planet until are time arrives to be reunited. We may hurt and we miss people so badly we cannot function.
Death has a funny way of making us appreciate things. Especially time by knowing that at some point we have to move on. To value things different, to enjoy the time on this planet. And in the same breath can rip the lives, the soul, the heart by being separated.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
The reasons why we write these articles is help those who are suffering, to relieve pain. To heal the heart through knowledge, by love. By finding the light that is within.
We are never separated from those that we love.
We are all beings of light, we are eternal. It is not a physical shell, a vessel that the body provides. We are what animates the body, we are the light that is within. The light within is not bound by physical life. The light that is in me is in you, it is in all of us.
We have the ability to return to light to be with the light of those in that next place. When we sleep our spirits leave our physical body, we return home to the spirit. The spirit is free. When death returns our loved one’s home, they are already there when we sleep. It is us who visit.
We come from the same place on the first breath and return on the last but when we sleep, we can be reunited. The spirit is in control, it is not to be forced. That lovely dream of being reunited, union, yoga with those in the next place. That fragment of memory being allowed to be kept as we return to this physical plane.
Fear of Separation
This is not a dream, this is the next place. We were, if we remember or not, reunited. We are everlasting beings only here on earth for a short time, to learn, develop, evolve and love. We are light, we are of the light and each night we go home, only our loved ones remain there.
Amplified by the strength of love we have the confidence to know we will never be separated. When we find our light within nothing can isolate us ever again.
For those who are hurting so bad they wish to follow their loved ones. We implore you not to. Your path will be different if you do, it will be painful, hurtful, to say the least. There is an easier way, we can reconnect, we can find that light that takes the sting out of loss. It helps us find peace until the right time to be unified once more. To be patient and enjoy life.
Nothing is ever missed in spirit, no moment, no deed, no action, no laugh, no joke, no conversion. We never need to say I wish my mum or dad was here or so and so was here. They are with you. Our loved ones in spirit smile in our happiness. They are ok. Any in need will be looked after, nurtured, and receive healing vibrations amplified by love of those in the spirit and on earth.
When death comes and we see our loved ones peering over his shoulder, we may realise that have always been there. They were never really gone. Only as our own light breaks free and becomes separated from the physical body does our true sight appear.
We can all find the light. We all have the ability.
We wish you all unity with your spirits.
Our next Day of Healing is on Saturday the 2nd of November at 10.00am to 1.30pm at Crosby library. If someone is struggling or needs help then please bring them along. All treatment and refreshment on the day is free of charge. We do accept donations if offered as this goes to the hire of the room. We may not be struggling but we all know someone who is. Pop in for a cuppa and some home made cake. For more information see the links below.
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